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	Four & a half years ago... It was on Sunday morning 4 1/2 years ago that you left us John. I will never forget that morning. Dad and I heard you take your last breath...in the seconds it took us to get to your side, you were gone. All your suffering was over and ours began. What we went through the day before you died and all the days following are forever etched in my mind. The one thing that haunts me and probably always will is that in those final minutes or seconds before you passed that you could have been reaching out to find my hand and I wasn't there..I will never forgive myself for not being there John, how could I not have been there when in my heart I knew that the time was drawing close?? On Saturday evening I got close to your ear and told you that it was okay to go, that it was time to get your wings and at 7:15 Sunday morning you took your last breath. My heart aches and misses you as much today as it did then. You will forever be "My Bestest Boy" John...I love you and miss you with all my heart & soul. Sending ((Hugs)) to heaven for you my precious boy. Love Always & Forever, Mommy

	My Courageous Son...John Patrick I will always remember the great courage John had and how brave he was through all he had to endure. He kept his wonderful sense of humor almost to the end of his life. Close to the end his tumor had robbed him of most of his sight,most of his hearing and his means of communicating with us. Shortly before he lost everything I thought we'd better have a little code so we agreed on a squeeze of his fingers...one squeeze was for yes, two for no and three was for "I love you"..one day we were practicing and I squeezed his fingers 3 times for "I love you"....he squeezed me back 4 times...I looked at him kind of puzzled and said "what does that mean?" and he said " I love you more" There are not enough words to express how much I miss my son, how much my heart aches for him. I will never forget the brave battle he fought and how much we all miss him. John was very special and he will always be "my bestest boy".... I will LOVE & MISS you ALWAYS John....Mommy

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John's brothers, Billy & Bobby, playing nintendo Wii bowling

John's sister, Lisa, winner of our 1st nintendo Wii bowling tournament

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Memorial Candles

	Garnet/Mom To Angel Julia Hadcock lit a candle on 11/20/2009: "Saying a prayer tonight & lighting a candle to remember you, John, may it burn long & bright."

	John's Mom lit a candle on 11/19/2009: "Mommy LOVES you John!!!!!!!"

	John's Mom lit a candle on 11/19/2009: "You're sweet "Butch Butch" is in heaven with you now John, I'm so sad that she is gone."

	John's Mom lit a candle on 11/18/2009: "Give your Granny & PaPa hugs for me John, today is their anniversary. Missing them & you my sweet boy. Love U, Mommy"

	John's Mom lit a candle on 11/01/2009: "Give PaPa a big hug for me today and tell him how much I miss him, it's been 18 yrs. today, Love you & miss U.Mommy"

	John's Mom lit a candle on 10/26/2009: "I LOVE YOU JOHN & I MISS YOU MORE & MORE EVERY SINGLE DAY."

	John's Mom lit a candle on 10/26/2009: "Going on 10 years & the missing grows more & more..this mother's heart is forever broken :-("

	John's Mom lit a candle on 09/24/2009: "Goodnight my sweet boy..remember, Mommy loves YOU."

	Garnet/Mom To Angel Julia Hadcock lit a candle on 09/21/2009: "Thinking of you John & I pray your loved ones are comforted by God's Peace & loving memories."

	John's Mom lit a candle on 09/21/2009: "9 yrs. 4 mos. today that you've been gone, my heart will ache forever, missing you only gets worse...."

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